Relationship problems-handling fear in your relationship
Saturday by Kingsley Ugonna Okoro
Fear is a very bad factor; it is a killer, a deceiver, a destroyer etc. Fear has created problems in relationships and the worst part of it is that you may not know that you are tormented by fear. Dr love will show you how bad fear can be and you come out of and save your relationship with his true love advice;
Fear puts doubts inside you and leave uncertainty inside of you which is not healthy for your relationship. Whenever fear sets in, the tone of the music will change instantly. The trust must be there in your relationship so as to eliminate fear from the relationship (read this post on trust;how to build trust in your relationship). Fear can destroy even marriages not to talk of growing courtship. Fear makes you to be frustrated and always make you feel that you are not better and that someone better will surely snatch your partner away from you one day. What brings about fear in a relationship?
When one partner is growing higher the other
When one partner maintains his/her appearance better than the other
The issue of jealousy
When one partner gets more admiration than the other
When the two partners have different ideology
When one partner contributes more in the relationship than the other
Can you see the factors that cause fear in a relationship? I listed them so that you can see where you have the fear factor coming from and work on it.
Just take these pieces of advice from me; take away your mind from fear, feel good about yourself, accept the fact that you are also admired by others and that your partner will find it difficult to leave without you.
Finally, I want you to just tell yourself this; “if someone can take him/her away from me, then, he/she never worth my love.” this will certainly take off fear from you and you have time to enjoy the relationship. In true love relationship, the both partners can talk about fears and how to eliminate it. If your partner is real with you, he/she should constantly assure you of his/her love for you.
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